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First published in Elephant Journal , August 2017 Recently a few of my clients have been contemplating whether it’s time to end therapy. Recently other of my clients have been contemplating whether to end their romantic relationships. Should I stay or should I go and how do I know? Fritz Perls, founder of Gestalt Therapy […]

First published and edited by Elephant Journal.   “How will I know if he really loves me?” The late Whitney Houston sings in the background. The couple is looking at the floor, glum and stuck. They’ve been in the same situation of “not knowing” for two years. The relationship is not moving forward and yet […]

First published in Elephant Journal “There’s something wrong with me”, my client says, “inherently wrong with me. Everyone else is hooking up, settling down or having children. I’m being left on the fence, passed by. I don’t know why. Perhaps I’m too ugly, or too boring, or too closed. I’ve always felt left out, I […]

Edited and first published by Elephant Journal. The young woman sat on the worn suede sofa in her living room, alone. It was a hot Summer’s night. Her legs tucked under her, she wore a white cotton mini skirt and a dusty pink camisole top. She ran her fingers through her shoulder length highlighted hair and […]